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How do I know if I’m in a bad relationship?

How do i know if I’m in a bad relationship? My boyfriend doesn’t trust me even though i have done nothing wrong. I’m worried if we break up he might hurt himself. Dear Relationship Drama, Thank you seeking out advice on this one. When I read your question, there are…

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How do I tell my grandma I like the boy she caught me having sex with that I still like him. How do I tell my parents I’m having sex?

Hey Victoria! Sounds like you are in a bit of a pickle and need some help, so I’m glad you wrote in. First off, I am and sorry about grandma catching you having sex. You can rest assured that you and your boyfriend are not the only people to have…

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Topics: Relationships, Sexual Health

How do you know if you’re in a good relationship?

Hi LaShaun, that’s a good question. The truth is that every relationship is unique, and everyone has their own way of knowing if a relationship is right for them. That being said, your relationship has a high chance of being a healthy one if you and your boy/girlfriend are: Communicating…

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Topics: Identity, Life Tips, Relationships

How do you maintain a good relationship with a family member no one wants anything to do with?

Hi Windy, You are a girl after my own heart. It’s hard when you see someone in your family being ostracized and excluded from the very people who are meant to love and support them. Family can be so complicated, especially in tribal communities when the structure of our family…

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Topics: Identity, Mental Health, Relationships

How do you make a dental dam using a condom?

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Topics: Life Tips, Relationships, Sexual Health

I am a girl interested in dating girls. Where should I meet people to date?

I am a 16 year old girl, and I am interested in dating girls. My problem is that I don’t know where to meet people to date. I don’t even know anyone else who’s gay. What should I do? PNC, this is a tough one. One issue is that you…

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Topics: 2SLGBTQ, Identity, Physical Health, Relationships, Sexual Health

I feel stuck in an unhealthy relationship, but he won’t let me go.

Hey there, thanks for writing in. This is a tricky situation and I’m glad you’re reaching out for help. When it comes to setting up boundaries with the people you love, especially those who are working hard to keep things the way they are, it can be reallydifficult and guilt…

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Topics: Mental Health, Relationships, Sexual Health

I get bullied by this girl because the boy she likes is dating me.

I get bullied at school everyday by this one girl because the boy she likes is dating me. She tells me to kill myself and I just don’t know what to do anymore? – Zah Geo – Hi Zah Geo. First off, I’m so sorry that you have to…

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Topics: Education, Intolerance, Life Tips, Mental Health, Relationships

I have an idea my relative is thinking about suicide. What should I do?

Mike, thank you for your question. Suicide is an important issue that affects many of us. From an Auntie’s eye view, one of the most important things is to show your relative that you care. If you feel comfortable, talk to them in private about the signs of suicide you…

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I have friends back home that give me a hard time about leaving my rez.

I don’t know what to say. How can I shake it off? Dear “A,” people leave their reservations for different reasons… sometimes for school, a job, to travel, join the military, or to be closer to someone they love. I don’t know your reasons for leaving, but it stinks that…

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Topics: Identity, Intolerance, Mental Health, Relationships

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How do I know if I’m in a bad relationship?

How do I tell my grandma I like the boy she caught me having sex with that I still like him. How do I tell my parents I’m having sex?

How do you know if you’re in a good relationship?

How do you maintain a good relationship with a family member no one wants anything to do with?

How do you make a dental dam using a condom?

I am a girl interested in dating girls. Where should I meet people to date?

I feel stuck in an unhealthy relationship, but he won’t let me go.

I get bullied by this girl because the boy she likes is dating me.

I have an idea my relative is thinking about suicide. What should I do?

I have friends back home that give me a hard time about leaving my rez.

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