Relationships Articles
Check out the latest articles for people across Indian Country.
A Love Note to All My Queer Relations (on Mental Health)
As Indigenous people, we have a rich history of queerness. Indigenous people...
Colonial Languages Do Not Define My Identity
As a queer, 2-Spirit Indigenous person, I have definitely struggled with my...
Sexual Orientation: A Spectrum Of Attraction
National Loving Day
National Loving Day celebrates interracial marriage and the precedence set for same...
How to Date Yourself
Dating can be hard, especially if you don’t know what you are...
Sex Assigned at Birth and Gender Identity: What Is The Difference?
How to Deal with a Breakup
There is not one way to magically get over a breakup completely...
Does Size Really Matter?
As a teenager, we’re all consumed with similar worries. From wanting to...
Sexual Orientations Explained: Lesbian, Gay, Heterosexual and Bisexual
How to Help a Friend Who Drank Too Much
Being around a friend who drank too much can be scary, especially...
How to Face Your Bully When You Go Back to School
Going back to school after a break, whether summer or Christmas, can...
Becoming Jane Doe
Alara, an Athabaskan and Tlingit transwoman, found her gender identity through drag....
Establishing Healthy Boundaries with Family
Family relationships can be beautiful but tricky to navigate at times. Learning...
Ways to Help a Friend Who is Being Bullied
Bullying is never fun or funny, especially when it’s happening to a...
There’s Heart Here
Roller derby champion. Activist. Cyclist. Follow three indigenous members of the Two...
Heads Up: Sex Must Start with Consent
The idea of having sex can be both exciting and nerve-wracking! You...
How to Access Free or Low-Cost Birth Control
When it comes to birth control, there are many different options available...
Saying Yes or No: What Is Consent?
My Abortion Story
Acknowledgment: We R Native would like to thank the author for sharing...
What is Roe v. Wade?
You might have heard about Roe v. Wade being “overturned.” This article...
Consent And Communication
HPV Vaccine
Human papillomavirus (HPV) is one of the most common sexually transmitted infections...
Real Talk About Sexual Pleasure
Sexual pleasure comes from understanding how your body works and what feels...
Consent Explained: What Is It?
Thinking About Having Sex
It’s important that you think through your decision to have sex with...
Wait what?! That’s what you do with lube?
A little-known fact is that lube can be a real game-changer when...
Top Signs Boys are in Puberty
Sex 101
People define “sex” in different ways. The dictionary defines it as “sexually...
Oral Sex
Oral sex is using one’s mouth to stimulate a partner’s genitals. Just...
Top Signs Girls are in Puberty
Protecting Yourself During Oral Sex
It is possible to get HIV and other STDs during oral sex...
Protecting Yourself During Anal Sex
Anal sex involves inserting one partner’۪s penis into another partner’۪s anus. It...
Taking Care of Your Body During Puberty
Protecting Yourself During Vaginal Sex
Vaginal sex happens when a partner’s penis is inserted into another partner’s...
Withdrawal – Pulling Out
Withdrawal is when the man pulls his penis out of the vagina...
Puberty: What Is Doctor Confidentiality?
The Real Story about Dental Dams
Giving and receiving oral sex can be fun and feel good. But...
Internal Condom Instructions
***Remember to always check the expiration date and package of any condom...
Accessing Sexual Health Care for Minors
How to Use an External (Male) Condom
If you choose to have sex, condoms can protect you and your...
Top 10 Sex Myths
MYTH #10: If I use birth control, I don’t need to worry...
Bodies: Different Shapes and Sizes. All Beautiful!
Take Notes: How to Not Misgender Your New Friend Crush
Understanding Pronouns & Misgendering Misgendering is when you refer to someone using...
How to Stay Safe When Traveling
Whether you’re going somewhere a couple of hours away or outside the...
Does Penis Size Really Matter?
History of the Sterilization of Native Women
It is no secret that the federal government has tried for centuries...
How to Use Ride Sharing Services Safely
Rideshare services, like Uber and Lyft, are good options when walking or...
Menstruation: What To Expect
Condom Shopping Guide
Get the facts!
How to Stay Connected with Old Friends
A major part of growing up is experiencing new things in life....
Period Hygiene: Tampons, Pads and Menstrual Cups
Safer Chest Compression Brands
New to chest binding or been doing it for years? The retailers...
Chest Binding 101
Chest binding is a way to create a flatter chest using undergarments...
How the Boner Grows
Healthy Habits for Chest Bindings
Whether you’re new to chest binding or have been doing it for...
Establishing Healthy Boundaries with Your Significant Other
Whether you’re at the start of a new relationship or in the...
All About Getting Your Period
6 Anthems by Queer and Two-Spirit Indigenous Artists to Pump You Up
Music is powerful medicine – especially when it’s coming from people who...
Humor is Sexy (Sometimes)
There are many qualities that can make someone sexy or attractive. Physical...
Masturbation: Totally Normal
Real Talk About Getting What You Need From Your Boo
In a healthy relationship, we should be appreciated, listened to, and have...
Types of Abortion
Abortion is a safe and effective medical procedure that ends a pregnancy. ...
Puberty and Finding Out Who You Are
Talking to Your Partner About Protection
The thought of talking to a partner about sex makes a lot...
Abstinence
Abstinence means not having sex (that means NO vaginal, oral, or anal...
BRAVE: Episode 5
Condoms 101
If you are having sex, condoms are the only method that provides...
Emergency Contraception: The Morning After Pill
Emergency contraception is a special type of oral contraceptive that can be...
BRAVE: Episode 2
Dual Method
Many people, who have vagina-penis sex, use dual protection. Dual protection means:...
The Shot – Depo
The Shot, or Depo- Provera®, contains a large dose of a progestin...
Sunhawk / Managing Stress
Pill, Patch or Ring
What is it and how does it work to prevent pregnancy? Hormones...
Sponge
The Sponge is a soft plastic (polyurethane) sponge that is worn in...
Nadira / Reaching Out for Help at College
Fertility Awareness: Rhythm Method
How does it work to prevent pregnancy? A woman identifies the days...
Sterilization
For women sterilization includes a surgical procedure that permanently blocks her fallopian...
Healthy Relationships PSA
Weird (but normal) Body Facts
Our bodies are amazing and house many secrets! Are you curious to...
6 Questions to Help You Find the Right Birth Control for You
Are you curious about what birth control options are out there? Here...
I Like the Minty ones
Native VOICES – the best sex ed videos you’ll every watch...
PSA This Relationship Advice is Actually Genius
Relationships – whether they are with our family members, friends, or significant...
Native Women Just Can’t Anymore
Sex can be fun and empowering. However, some of us – especially...
Lived Experience: Ceci’s Story
Two Spirit: loved & accepted
What’s PrEP
PrEP makes preventing HIV easy. But, what is PrEP, and who is...
Shutting Down Slut Shamers
Enjoying sex or openly expressing your sexuality doesn’t make you a “slut.”...
Lived Experience: Randy’s Story
LGBT: loved & accepted
What you Need to know about your Vagina and Vulva
Have you ever looked at your body and wondered, “Is this normal?”...
Access to Abortion
The overturning of Roe v. Wade has caused concern about safe access...
Lived Experience: Reese’s Story
LGBT: loved & accepted
How to Use the Pill
The birth control pill (“the pill”) is simple to use and can...
Getting Tested for HIV
If you’re thinking about getting tested for HIV, it’s normal to have...
A Gift from the Creator
LGBTQ-Two Spirit: You are a gift from the Creator. You are part...
Here’s What You Should Know About Body Sovereignty
You may have heard that Tribal Nations have sovereignty. This means that...
National Missing and Murdered Indigenous Person’s Awareness Day
Indigenous people have long experienced disproportionately high rates of violence compared to...
Lived Experience: Shea’s Story
Two Spirit: loved & accepted.
What is the MMIW Movement?
MMIW stands for Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women. It’s a movement that...
Form Healthy Relationships with Trusted People
Coping with trauma on your own can be difficult. Think of the...
Warriors Against Violence Society
“Women’s Honour Song”
Lateral Violence
What is Lateral Violence? Lateral violence- also called internalized colonialism or horizontal...
Protect Your Peace from Toxic Relationships
What does it mean to protect your peace? Protecting your peace means...
Healthy Realtionships
The Merrill Middle School students put together a video highlighting what they...
Supporting A Loved One
It can be painful watching those we love struggle. We may feel...
Talk About It
Does the idea of giving a friend negative feedback about their behavior...
Native Love is Respect
Justin Secakuku is a member of the Hopi Tribe of Arizona and...
Healthy and Unhealthy Relationships
We all have relationships with a variety of people, including friends, boyfriends,...
Is My Relationship Healthy?
All relationships exist on a spectrum from healthy to abusive with unhealthy...
Reclaim the Fire
A video written by the youth of Rosebud to address the issues...
Resources for Exploring your Sexual Identity
Your sexual orientation will emerge over time, probably little by little. Don’t...
Helping a Friend Who’s Been Raped
Getting support from people they love and trust can be invaluable for...
Native Love is Compassion
Raelyn Rodriguez is a member of the Rincon Band of Luiseño Indians...
Creating Safe Spaces
While the perpetrators of violence (like intimate partner violence, domestic violence, or...
Tips to be an Engaged Bystander
Leading up to every violent incident (be it intimate partner violence, domestic...
Native Love is Community
Alaska is home to 229 federally recognized tribes. Of those tribes operating...
Native VOICES episode 1
50 Shades of Grey? Nah, try 50 Shades of Native VOICES! The...
Native VOICES episode 2
Winter is here and so is snagging season. Use condom sense and...
STD Testing – How to Know if You Have an STD
How do you know if you have an STD? There’s only one...
Native VOICES Episode 3
We R Native. We R Proud. Accept Yourself. Protect Yourself. Tune in...
Native VOICES Episode 4
We all care about protecting ourselves and the ones we love. Embrace...
Ready for Level 3?
Are you ready for level 3?
Infant Immunization Week
To promote the importance and achievements of vaccines, especially in protecting the...
Banana Pancakes
February is the month of love and a time to recognize that...
Native It Gets Better
Here’s my personal vlog about being queer in today’s world! This is...
Honor LGBTQ2S People
Protect yourself and your family from suicide. Statistics show the risk of...
Randy George
My name is Randy T George. I’m 27, full blooded Native. I’m...
The New Kid
Starting a new school
Reese Tahmalwash
I am Reese Tahmalwash, I’m from the northwest, am a member of...
Shea Norris
My name is Shea Norris, I’m 23 years old and I come...
Sexual Identity/LGBTQ
Rob discusses acceptance, sexual identity and not being afraid of who you...
Love
The first time I fell in love, I didn’t have the foresight...
Adoption: Deciding to Search for Your Birth Family
If you are adopted, it is possible that you might not know...
Sex 101…Thinking About Having Sex
A video addressing the risks that can come with having sex, such...
Are You Safe?
At times we underestimate the amount of danger we could be in...
Arguing With Your Parents
Don’t get along with your parents or guardians? Often arguing and feel...
Puberty
Video created by Menominee students for the We R Native website
Overcoming Loneliness
If you are feeling socially awkward, there are things you can do...
Communicating About Grief With Your Family and Friends
After someone dies, it can be hard for everyone to adjust. Family...
Pregnancy Options
Tanika shares what advice she would give to a friend if they...
Listening to a Friend Who Needs You
Friends are often the first people that we turn to when we’re...
Overcoming Shyness
Shyness is usually associated with being quiet, insecure, and/or socially anxious. Being...
Natives Helping Natives
A Public Service Announcement filmed by youth participants at the NativeSTAND conference...
Meeting New People
Meeting new people can be a lot of fun. It can be...
More Tips for Communicating Effectively
Tip #1: Use ‘I’ statements. An “I” statement is a way of...
I’m Single and I’m Happy
How to be alone. A video by fiilmaker, Andrea Dorfman, and poet/singer/songwriter,...
Resolving an Argument or Disagreement
It is normal to argue or disagree with people. Everyone experiences some...
Safe Body Language
Using body language, like eye contact, posture, facial expressions or touch, can...
Hey There Chlamydia
Hey There Chlamydia, Plain White T’s Parody Music Video. Created by: Keith...
Safe Online Chat
Meeting people with similar interests can be fun and exciting, and it’۪s...
Starting at a New School
Whatever your reason, moving into a new school can be an intimidating...
Different Is Normal
Changing bodies Being different is normal.You don’t need to worry about whether...
