My white family is disrespectful of native culture. What do I do?
Not being appreciated for your native heritage can be difficult, especially if it’s coming from your family members who you want to love and respect.
There are a couple of things you can do:
- Educate – if you feel up to the challenge; start to teach your family about the things that make you proud to be Native. Speak up when you feel you’re being disrespected. Over time your family members perceptions of your Native heritage may change.
- Celebrate Who You Are – learn as much as you can about your tribal community. Seek out tribal members, events, talk to your elders, visit your tribes website.
One of the great things about life is that you get to decide the type of person you want to be. When we are younger we live with our families ideas of who they want us to be and sometimes it doesn’t always match what we know to be our authentic path.
Seek your authenticity, respect yourself and family. Remember it’s not your job to change the way people see Native culture, but it is your job to live your best life possible.
Take care,
Aunty Manda
