I am a male and i am not used to being with girls, generally I feel shy when they are around me. Can you help me overcome my shyness to have a healthy conversation with them?
Talking to some you’re interested in can be intimidating, even for the most confident person. So, give yourself a little bit of a break.
Sometimes it can be easier to talk to someone when you have something in common. People who are good at relationships or talking to others, often pay close attention to the other person…but not in a creepy way.
Break the ice by making eye contact and smiling. You can follow that up with a “How’s it going?” And, when they talk, listen. Don’t get caught up in what you’re going to say next because you’re worried about being cool. Just be present and genuine.
If you’re unsure about yourself, make sure spend some quality time with yourself to know what you like and don’t like.
Most of all be kind and love yourself. If you do, that shines out of you in every way possible and it attracts the right kind of people.
Take care,
Auntie Manda
