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I feel stuck in an unhealthy relationship, but he won’t let me go.

Hey there, thanks for writing in. This is a tricky situation and I’m glad you’re reaching out for help. When it comes to setting up boundaries with the people you love, especially those who are working hard to keep things the way they are, it can be reallydifficult and guilt…

Answered by Auntie Manda

Topics: Mental Health, Relationships, Sexual Health

I feel very insecure about my penis size and I’m not sure what to do.

Hey Auntie, I feel very insecure because of my penis size and I’m not sure what to do. I am 4 inches erect and feel like I am not pleasurable to a woman. It has bothered me for as long as I can remember. Is that too small? I know…

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Topics: Identity, Mental Health, Physical Health, Sexual Health

I get bullied by this girl because the boy she likes is dating me.

I get bullied at school everyday by this one girl because the boy she likes is dating me. She tells me to kill myself and I just don’t know what to do anymore? – Zah Geo – Hi Zah Geo. First off, I’m so sorry that you have to…

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Topics: Education, Intolerance, Life Tips, Mental Health, Relationships

I graduated high school but am lost on what to study or where to go?

Hey There! Yes, graduating from high school and deciding what to do next is definitely one of the biggest transitions in a young person’s life. It’s no wonder you’re feeling a little lost, and probably overwhelmed. It might be hard to believe, but most people feel this way during this…

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Topics: Education, Identity, Life Tips, Mental Health, Non-Native Allies

I have an idea my relative is thinking about suicide. What should I do?

Mike, thank you for your question. Suicide is an important issue that affects many of us. From an Auntie’s eye view, one of the most important things is to show your relative that you care. If you feel comfortable, talk to them in private about the signs of suicide you…

Answered by Auntie Manda

Topics: Identity, Mental Health, Relationships

I have friends back home that give me a hard time about leaving my rez.

I don’t know what to say. How can I shake it off? Dear “A,” people leave their reservations for different reasons… sometimes for school, a job, to travel, join the military, or to be closer to someone they love. I don’t know your reasons for leaving, but it stinks that…

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Topics: Identity, Intolerance, Mental Health, Relationships

I live in California, and am considering a move to Oklahoma…Am I just hoping for the best or is it a real possibility?

I live in California, and am considering, seriously, a move to be with extended family in Oklahoma. So many considerations… I’ve never lived there, but have visited many times. Am I just hoping for the best, or is it a real possibility? No matter what age you are, making any…

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Topics: Culture and Language, Identity, Life Tips

I think I have an STD…What do you think?

I think I have and STD. It’s a brown dot on my testicular sac. What do you think? Hey there…I’m happy you’re reaching out for advice and taking control of your health. 🙂 So, I’ve talked to one of my MD (Medical Doctor) friends and he says it could be…

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Topics: Physical Health, Relationships, Sexual Health

I think I might be gay…When do most people know for sure?

I think I might be gay, but I’m not sure. When do most people know for sure? Anonymous, the truth is that some people know their sexual orientation really early on in life (like when they’re 4 or 5 years old), while others go throughperiods where they question: Do I…

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Topics: 2SLGBTQ, Identity

I think I’m pregnant…I can’t talk to my mom about it….What can I do now?

I think I’m pregnant. I also had intercourse again about 3 days ago and I’m really scared. I can’t talk to my mom about it because she expects & thinks so highly of me. What can I do now? I’m glad you wrote in to get some help. Figuring out…

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Topics: Intolerance, Physical Health, Relationships, Sexual Health

MORE FROM YOUR RELATIVES

I feel stuck in an unhealthy relationship, but he won’t let me go.

I feel very insecure about my penis size and I’m not sure what to do.

I get bullied by this girl because the boy she likes is dating me.

I graduated high school but am lost on what to study or where to go?

I have an idea my relative is thinking about suicide. What should I do?

I have friends back home that give me a hard time about leaving my rez.

I live in California, and am considering a move to Oklahoma…Am I just hoping for the best or is it a real possibility?

I think I have an STD…What do you think?

I think I might be gay…When do most people know for sure?

I think I’m pregnant…I can’t talk to my mom about it….What can I do now?

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